Hi DQ - I just read your first post and thought is great. I to have been on both sides and I see that what you posted to be very true. What I would like to know from you - Is what constitutes an Affair ?
I had an affair while living with my H. After years my H left me and within weeks of living away from home took up with a woman whom he is still with today. He says it is not an affair. He is open with her. Dating and introducing family and friends that are interested. We are both still in emotional and financial turmoil. Attached at the hip by business and kids. with all your research would you conside r this relationship of his doomed.
It has only been 6 months and he was telling everyone who would listen that he had a new 'friend' within weeks , months of meeting. He does not live with her.
