He basically told me that they cannot change feelings
Your H is off his rocker. Of course feelings can change. They change all the time. He just doesn't want them to change.
*Ugh* It frustrates me to see such good, lovable, people being left behind by our Sps. We want so badly to make things work; to love them unconditionally; to make ammends and rebuild our Ms, and this is the kind of crap that we get told. "It's too late", "ILYBNILWY", "I don't want to have this conversation".
Grr. I'm sorry MB, but it makes me mad sometimes. I wish I could just take my 'splainin stick and have a few minutes with your H, and my W, and all the WAS of everyone here and make them see some reason...
Me40 WAW37 M18 T20 S18,14 D13 EA Bomb 6/08 Sep 11/20/08 Ret 08/09 Sep/Filed 11/09