IMO the quickness of his decisions may be the new r's downfall, they both sound like they have issues.
You may be right. I also want to add that I DO NOT contact him in any way or form. I dont text, email or talk to him. It took me almost 7 months to stop doing this but I finally stopped. JCJ, I use to drive by his house every night after work. What good this done me, I dont know, but It became a nightly thing to do. I finally stopped doing that. The only thing I do now is look ar her myspace page sometimes and I only do this to just see what crazy stuff she writes. I am trying to stop doing this also. I also try not to talk about him in public. We live in a small town and alot of people know us, so it is hard not to run into anybody that dont have something to say. Everyone was shocked at first. My xh seems very happy with his new girl. She is young and very skinny. A older mans dream I guess. The only things that really is hurting me now, is the fact that he doesnt even ask how I am. He knows he left me struggling and he doesnt even ask our son if I am alright as far as fiancially. You can fall out of love but still have a heart. He was the bread winner and he knows I am struggling, he just doesnt care, and that hurts ALOT. I am the mother of his child and I stood by him for 20 years! That alone deserves a "How are You Doing". Anyway Thank You for posting to me, seems like people are starting to not post as much. I guess they are tired of saying the same things over and over, I dont blame them. Time does heal, it is healing me, that along with GOD.
