Hoop, Only joint debt we have is the mortgage and a joint credit card w/ less than $500 on it. No big deal, she's been paying everything so far, I've checked. And she should be as guilty as she is. So far so good on the finances.
I've already spoken w/ a lawyer. I haven't told the wife anything.
Thanks for the pep talk and taking time out of your day to support me!
M-41 ex-W-40 Together--17 years SS-20 D-14 Bomb--2 Feb 09 WAW--6 Feb 09 Officially divorced on 2 Jun 2010!!! ex-W has a boyfriend 8 Jun 2010!!! Off we go into the wild blue yonder!!!!