AFWAW, Stay strong...work on a life for you and your daughter that is filled with positives. Forget your wife for now and keep the conversation focused on the well being of your daughter. Fix your finance issues such as PAY OFF AS MUCH JOINT DEBT AS YOU CAN. It is much better to be debt free. If you have savings use it to get ahead on everything, cancel and joint credit cards, to include your STAR Card and Club Card. You do not want collection agencies calling your CC later. Tell your wife nothing about what you are doing just do it. Go talk to a lawyer...on-base lawyers cannot represent you but you can go talk to them and ask for recommendations. Just because you file doesn't mean you will divorce. This is not the time to give her anything.
Check this page out...http://www.fathersrightsinc.com/divorce.htm
I know people that used the information to get smart about the situation they were in and saved some money, and heartaches.
No one knows if your marriage is over but you. Try your best. Good luck on Thursday!
