Unfortunately SMW, at some point you may come to realize that you can't MAKE your husband be the father he should be. If worse comes to worse, he may never end up being there for the kids as much as you would like, and there isn't anything you can do about it except to take up the slack. You can't make him want to do the right thing by them.
You cannot be lonely if you like the person you're alone with. Dr. Wayne Dyer
