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[Ready2Change]

First , sorry you are in the same boat as the rest of us. The good thing is you found this site. It is a great place for support.

"What is best for my kids is best for me" When I have a decision to make this statement helps.

Having two happy loving parents is best for my kids. I can only control my thoughts, words and actions. Spouse is free to do what she wants. I am a role model for my kids.

Forgiving my former wife was GOOD for ME. I still do it.

These are my favorite words:
Forgiveness,Compassion,Listening,Patience,Understanding,Giving,Empathy

Best thing to do is work on what YOU can control. Your Thoughts,Words and Actions. Work on you during this phase of your relationship.

My understanding is one spouse is more a giver and one is more a taker. How long was your W giving? Time to flip. Take a look at the books I have listed at the first post of my thread. They helped me a lot.