Originally Posted By: Making_IT
Well, there was a little contact this morning...

She sent a text responding to the message that I had sent earlier in the week. It went something like, "I enjoyed my trip back home. I really miss my family. How are you doing? Do I have any mail?".

I sent a brief response saying, "I am glad your visit with your family went good. I am doing well, keeping busy. Yes, you do have mail."

Not sure if my response was too brief or too cold, but I didn't want to come across clingy. I guess we'll see what comes out of this.



I think the brief response is the ticket.

It shows that you're not clingy.

You have to stop being clingy,
brief responses that don't ask questions or tell her how you feel about her and how you are doing are the way to go. Don't give her anymore information than is necessary. As a test, try responding with one or two word texts when she texts you and stop sending her text messages, you will only reply to her texts from now on and also don't reply immediately, take your time, I bet you respond within a few minutes of her texts while she takes hours & possibly days to respond - start doing the same.