Actually Puppy, I am in full realization that there could be an OM.. possibly just an internet EA, perhaps even a PA.. In fact I suspect there is some level, even if it was just thinking about it - I think this because of the sudden accusation of "checking up on her" - I know enough to know that that is usually a reaction to something to check up on.
Its funny how WAS spout how they have nothing to hide, yet if you look they get REALLY angry. and I also know that anger is often the hiding place for guilt.
Does not change the fact that I want to renew my M with my W, and it has really seemed for the last few weeks that she also whole heartedly wanted this. It could be a pipe dream for me, it could be she really is nervous. I suspect perhaps it is a bit of guilt for EA/PA and wondering if trust can ever be rebuilt. Perhaps she feels that she must disclose whatever it is, and does not want to think about it. In some ways I hope that she does disclose something - I am already ready with my response, and have practiced it over and over in my head.
"I know. I have known you long enough to know what is happening. That does not change my love for you, and if you are ready and willing to work on restoring our M to better than ever, I am ready also. I love you unconditionally, nothing will change that."
I just have to be careful and not jump the gun. If she says "I have something to tell you" its not time for the response. I have to let her tell me first. Else she will just get mad and ask how I could accuse her of just what she was about to tell me. Been there, done that.
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