Need to really make changes for me (thread #3)

[mdoodles]

wow, really, what a small world, i am in suffolk county, so funny how close we really live to eachother....

i agree, heat is good. pressure is never good, although i think everything depends on timing.

sometimes when they are coming around more, things we do dont appear as pressure. everything seems like pressure when they arent up to being receptive.

i know in my situation, these last 6 months or so, everytime i found something out, everytime i caught him in a lie, i did carry on, i did call him out on everything, i did insist on him coming home.

and u know what? it didnt upset him, it didnt seem like pressure to him, because he was coming around already on his own.

focus on your timing, figure out the good and not so good times for when u can put on the heat.