I am glad you are keeping the faith and not giving up. I am sure it is not easy I have no clue how I would actually handle it if my H and I were to ever try and piece things back together. You keep focusing on the positives, you are doing so well!
And re. the H being sick....that is something I would say. I am a "fixer". I want to problem solve. If H says he is sick I say "Go to the doctor/go to bed" stuff like that. He says he has to work, too. Finally I learned and I say "Oh that must suck, hope you get to feeling better"
