Hey, sorry to cause you ANY frustration. I think you have enough of that already. Didnt mean to. You may remember I did what you did. Probably used some of the same words even... So, I wasnt trying to say you did something wrong or bad. I was just pointing out that usually, it takes a lot of time till all these "implications" sink in and they react if ever. WAs have their owntimeline and way to process things. Hopefully your H will step up sooner towards your kids. K