Please, don't try to figure it out. Just run like hell.
Just going to get custody of D1 and split. Thankfully I've got a ton of evidence to present and am in the driver's seat of the D right now. Her attorney still hasn't responded to my Motion for Psychological Evaluation and it has been a full month. W/MIL still haven't even mentioned it to me during any of the custody swaps. I'd figure they'd have had something smart-ass to say at least, but they instead act nicey-nice and pretend like nothing is happening.
I'm guessing their attorney has been split now because they aren't getting what they want fast enough. If I received an "offer" from them it would be "Give us all the money and give up custody of your daughter and we'll... uh... just give it."
"You can't reason someone out of a position they didn't reason themselves into."