The adventure continues--part 5

[Coach]

MAN UP so that she has the beautiful soul AND the man of her dreams. Show her that you have self respect, that you KNOW you can have love with and be loved by any one of a number of women, and that you won't wait around for ANYONE to love you properly.

You need to get with the attitude that you are "da man" and that you have a ton to offer a woman, and that the way she is treating you (stringing you along while playing the field) is totally unacceptable. You're NOT a loser.

AF, Notice how everyone here is getting annoyed with your thinking? It's because you aren't putting yourself first ("Love your neighbor as yourself.") This isn't selfish or cold but how a healthy strong person behaves. If you don't think you are worthy of being loved why would your W? That's how she is "testing" you. She betrayed you and it appears to her you are just going to forgive her and move on with the M. She needs to see that it angers you, you feel rage and that you deserve more respect than she is giving.
You will show her by respecting and loving yourself. How do you do that? You are in control of yourself - emotionally, physically, spiritually and intellectually. You are responsible for your own happiness. Stop thinking, writing, and wasting away thinking of her and start doing for yourself. Reread the advice you are getting and start by implementing one or two of the ideas. Know what you are going to say before you talk to your W, have a exit plan. You start being in charge of how things roll in your life. You can handle it.
Cheers
Coach