It's all phony distractions. She's buying time so she can cake-eat. She'll string you along until she's used up and has no other exciting option. Then she'll come back for the comfort.
MAKE IT UNCOMFORTABLE. MAKE HER FEEL THAT SHE'S LOST YOU. MAKE HER SCARED.
You better be GALing your butt off. Do "man stuff" as much as possible.