She can't make her decision because YOU AREN'T GIVING HER WHAT SHE NEEDS TO MAKE IT. Either take away your kind, dignified behavior and start being a jerk so that she can chalk you up to "not enough of a man" who is also an a-hole and be done with you. OR....... MAN UP so that she has the beautiful soul AND the man of her dreams. Show her that you have self respect, that you KNOW you can have love with and be loved by any one of a number of women, and that you won't wait around for ANYONE to love you properly.
You need to get with the attitude that you are "da man" and that you have a ton to offer a woman, and that the way she is treating you (stringing you along while playing the field) is totally unacceptable. You're NOT a loser.
