It seems to be working.... sometimes #2

[sandycay]

sandycay,
These things happen between couples, between very happy couples. Right now you are at a sensitive phase, re-establishing connection, trust, intimacy. Please try and be realistic and dont blow anything out of proportion..
xxxx
K

Thanks for the support

Dearest Maria,

That's the thing that your not prepared for in Piecing. Always waiting for one incident to "cause" a bomb to drop. I believe in my situation that will not happen but I often have the habit of "shooting from the hip and not taking the time to take aim".

That is why I still come here...It gives me place to get perspective but I also get to see the process/progress I am making....

A year and a half ago .... I was not capable of looking within and seeing what I was doing wrong.... but by "journaling" here I can see that. This helps.... as I write down things here it makes it clearer.... like when he said "I'm fine"... it didnt' dawn on me (I wasn't listening) that I should have let it go, but seeing it in writing helps.

Thanks for your nuggets of wisdom... they are appreciated.