I don't underestimate the size of the task ahead, but I don't intend to try and fix everything on my own and I don't think I'll ever be able to fix W, she has to go figure and fix herself. I've done enough IC for me and I think I've got a good enough handle on me to cope, plus I have still got this site and all my friends who are an absolute god send.
W and I are talking and because of my more direct approach W is talking more openly without actually holding her hands up and saying I did it.
Last night W was telling me she has hundreds of things going around in her head at anyone time, her health, FIL health, work, family etc, it's all a struggle, plus she has nothing exciting going on in her life. I didn't pick up on the last bit until this morning, but when I did ,I told W she has to sit down and figure out what it is she wants to make her happy, and what excitement she want to put back into her life and the M. I told her that her happiness is down to her not me.
Also K, my health is more important than the M and D7 needs a healthy dad so if it came to it I'll be out of here before that stroke happens.
