Thanks for the suggestions and I will look forward to more if you come up with any.
As for reading SSM and others, I have tried. She read the first couple chapters of SSM and refused to read the rest. She doesn't read a lot of books (but loves magazines) and said it was because of that, but I think it hit a nerve and she was afraid it might prove to her that some or much of this is her fault too. She is pretty stubborn and I think not reading more was a defense mechanism more than anything. As much as I would like her to read it, I don't think she will.
CB
Me; 42, W; 43 M; 16 yrs S12, D9
3/13 - "I want to move to XYZ City (four hours away) and it might be without you, not sure" 5/13 - "Not sure I meant that"
