And Bbj, having a healthy, passionate sex life, trying things and being adventurous is NOT a sinn damn it!!! (UNLESS it gets too crazy, or makes you feel weird- I cant use this language about these things very well, you know what I mean).
At least that's what my C told me and I believed her. She actually said "well, you missed a lot of fun girl because someone told you is not right. Now I am telling you it is and you better make up for it". And honestly, I am planning to. K