Me too.. I feel huge compassion for him. As my sister did for her H.. she struggled on for 5 years... but she had to walk away in the end, but wished him well. He was a cross dresser (she had no clue.. found a bag of outsized clothes and shoes after she had been M 10 years, but she said too, the clues had been there all along looking back, but she chose to ignore them..)
And I feel for you too. Everyone is right, this is NOT about you, or what you did/didnt do in the M. You cant fight stuff like this, its in him and down to him.
