m-54 w-44 children-4 bomb-sept 21 2007 t-21 m-20yrs bomb-sept 23 2007 divorced but not giving up hope, not yethttp://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubb...rue#post1224023
Heard this last night, because the pig farmers are up in arms about the swine flu, the virus has a new name, hamthrax.
m-54 w-44 children-4 bomb-sept 21 2007 t-21 m-20yrs bomb-sept 23 2007 divorced but not giving up hope, not yethttp://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubb...rue#post1224023
Here and other places you do have people who are there for support...just and FYI....we all pay back, and we do that by being around.
Getting support or advice It is not less manly, unless your getting advice from trapt. : )
It's not like that at all. I've been busy and took a break from being online.
I've started going to Church again 3 weeks ago. Last Monday, kids told her that they went to Church with me. From what they told me it sounded like she was pleasantly surprised. Then we had the decent conversation on Tuesday. She had the kids this past weekend and she works Sunday mornings so I asked her on Wednesday if I could pick the kids up and take them to Church with me.
That's when sh!t hit the fan. She went on and on about how nobody cares about her and how her family likes me more than her and that they ignore her. She then started going through things from her childhood that she's upset about. I stayed cool and calm and continued to say "I'm sorry you feel that way" to the point where I think she was getting annoyed. She kept going through the same things until she ended hanging up on me.
Apparently she called MIL after she hung up on me. MIL called me soon after. They made plans to sit down today to talk about her childhood issues. Coincidentally wife is not feeling well today so they to postpone the "lecturing" as wife puts it. I wasn't surprised. She's not ready. She hasn't discovered what she needs to do for herself yet.
She's still in full on replay. Her "friend" is becoming or is already more than that. S11 came home to tell me that wife calls friend "baby" like she always used to call me. He's getting to the point he doesn't want to go over there. S11 says she is mad a lot of the time except when "friend" is there. She's got to put her mask on.
