Jack , I am the one that wanted to punish her, I know you have not ever said to punish her.You are right , I need to have a better balance,I need to try and maintain some emotional distance, and in the process still treat her with dignity.You are right, I am punishing myself because she is so lost, but she made the decision to quit, not me.I know this is not easy, I just expected more out of myself.Thank you for the advice, it is what I need to hear.
m-54 w-44 children-4 bomb-sept 21 2007 t-21 m-20yrs bomb-sept 23 2007 divorced but not giving up hope, not yethttp://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubb...rue#post1224023
