Uhh...I never said punish her...I said treat yourself better.

So she is lost and your tortured? Soooo you think you keep the pain off of your face when she is around? So when she does get glimpses of sanity she looks up and sees the effect her choices have made on you. (In the bad way?) Yeah cause that would make me want to surface to reality.

Craig do what you think you need to do, I'm just saying flogging yourself in the process...doesn't seem to be helping you. Scars form when the wound is allowed time and space to heal, not when wounds are constantly poked and prodded.

Last edited by Jack_Three_Beans; 05/05/09 05:13 PM.

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