Hey BBJ, I am always asking the questions nobody wants to.....
I read your post twice and a couple of things jumped at me. By the way i agree that you are a great person....
I find it difficult to consider my XW as my best friend. You are much more forgiving than I am. I figured she lost that privilege when she acted the way she did. Maybe I should reconsider but I am simply not able to. Also, I think you are stretching it a little when you compare a drug addiction to a porn addiction.
Having said this, you do what you feel you need to do. I am just trying to understand, but at the end of the day, it does not really matter.
Is it possible that you need to get this off your chest....that it will do you some good.....
