It's so hard getting used to separation, wanting to see change, and the only change you see is W detaching. I know, I've been there, I am there, and I have the same doubts and fears after 7 months of it. I did see a good analogy on another thread that I think is appropriate.
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I like to use the analogy of picturing DBing as an oceanliner at sea. In order to get it to change in the opposite direction you start spinning that wheel around and around, but at first you don't see any change in heading. There's a lag between the time you spin that wheel and when the rudder actually changes the ships direction thru the water and that a ship takes a large arc to get it to circle aroung in the other direction ... but so long as you keep turning that wheel that ship will turn.
Hang in there and keep up the DBing. Check out AFWAW's thread as there is great advice from Gucci Loafer, Puppy, and others.
