K - if you can't have sex because your back hurts, I suggest you may be doing it wrong ;0)
A massage may be helpful as well. Have you considered it? A professional one? Works wonders sometimes.
I don't think you should wait too long to answer those questions. For your own piece of mind, you should know those answers and while you may not feel like doing that work right now, I think you should put one foot in front of the other and work out your own feelings. Know yourself. You should like yourself. It would help with that sex problem. I mean back problem
Take care K.
AJ
"Our lives begin to end the day we become silent about things that matter" MLK Put the glass down... "Yesterday I was clever so I wanted to change the world Today I am wise, so I am changing myself."
