Hoosier at the very least write the letter to get it out of your head and feel good about writting it. Once it is out...then decide whether to send it or burn it.
You do sound amazingly good. : ) So good for you. A success story.
Oops--and ps, yes, I agree--I at least need to write the letter, then decide what to do with it.
M60 H52 D20 M14 yrs OW-old gf from 1986 bomb-5/18/08 H filed for D-9/10/08 D final 4/24/09 xH remarried (not OW) 2012
