Hoosier at the very least write the letter to get it out of your head and feel good about writting it. Once it is out...then decide whether to send it or burn it.
You do sound amazingly good. : ) So good for you. A success story.
Thanks, J3B. I'm not sure you've ever posted to me before! I appreciate it.
I think it will be awhile before I feel like a success; the "twice divorced" thing is something I have to work with (especially as a Catholic, and after promising myself as a teen that I would have a stable marriage no matter what!!) However, I do trust that I'll get there; there's been so much healing since the first of the year.
M60 H52 D20 M14 yrs OW-old gf from 1986 bomb-5/18/08 H filed for D-9/10/08 D final 4/24/09 xH remarried (not OW) 2012