Springing forward...

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BobbiJo

I am praying for you and Dan..and the kids. I know this is not the path you wanted to take but I commend your courage.

Are you going to tell Dan why you have come to this conclusion since you have never really confronted him on it and I suspect no one ever has. Do you think it might shock him for it to come to light, so as maybe to give him some food for thought. You know it's such a "dirty secret" that if some light was shed on it, he might start considering it for what it is.

Are you able to tell him him without condemnation, hurt or anger? If you do decide to disucss this with him,..you might possibley leave out the pastors name as you want the pastor to be a refuge...Maybe you can just say you have been talking about it with a C...

I don't know Bobbi and maybe others can throw in their suggestions...but I think you have come this far and your ready to file anyway so would it really hurt anything if you did confront him with this? Again, just food for thought.

Blessings