After our text messages yesterday I did not respond to H. I was home last night making dinner and saw that I got a new text. And to my surprise, H set a text saying: "Just don't bring no man in my house." OMG, I never laughed so much. Is he for real? I just wanted to send him back a message saying your house has been foreclosed on due to nonpayment and neglect and abandonement. But I didn't. Why bother. I gave no response.
This morning H has been ringing down the phone and I haven't answered him. I guess he wants to use his signature line "I'm coming back home" [at an unknown date and time without doing anything to make up for all the hurt and pain I have caused you. Ah actually, I think he edits that out right?]
So, I think its time for me to go dark again. Let him sit back and think a bit. I have promised myself that I will not answer his calls at least not for today. Will see about tomorrow, don't want to set up false promise but I think some time should pass on this one.
Anyway, to share another realization, this morning I was thinking and I recall that Michele said that we should not pressure our WAS to come back to the R, but I think that pressure is a no no, but heat is good. I mean heat things up a bit without comfortation, don't have our WAS living comfy with how things are. At least this is true for my sitch. I have don't want to pressure my H, I want to heat things up and make him uncomfortable/uneasy so that he can seek out a way to cool down one way or another. Just a thought....
