Amen to that, Puppy! Jesus forgave the adultress, but in telling her "Go and sin no more," he showed her clearly what are the appropriate boundaries and behavior.

SMW is absolutely correct: allowing the children to continue to exposed to this behavior is damaging to them. They're clearly struggling with it. Setting the boundary protects them, first and foremost. That's the priority.

M60
H52
D20
M14 yrs
OW-old gf from 1986
bomb-5/18/08
H filed for D-9/10/08
D final 4/24/09
xH remarried (not OW) 2012