The adventure continues--part 5

[AFWAW]

Of course she is going to test your resolve. Until you can pass these tests like successful men do, then I can't help you

Why does she need to test my resolve? Like you said, she cheated, she blew it. Why the $#!@ is she testing my resolve?

AFWAW.. When a woman backs off, the smartest thing a man can do is to back off an equal distance. ("I feel the same way type of attitude") This then HELPS the woman to move PAST those feelings because it causes her thought process to change. (feelings FOLLOW THOUGHTS, so.. for feelings to change.. we need her thoughts to change) This is why you WANT her to wonder if you don't want her back. It changes her thought process. You HAVE to follow this through. HOLD THE LINE.

It felt like she had moved past those feelings. I thought I was holding the line. Did I pull too soon? It felt like she was going to slip off the line if I didn't pull. Dammit!!!! This is too complicated. It shouldn't be this hard.

You need to be using the same stategy she is. (her strategy is the one that IS working) SHE is saying the things I keep recommending to you. It seems to be working fabulous for her doesn't it? Haven't you noticed that when she backs off that you NATURALLY WANT to move toward her?

I see what you're saying but why does she feel she can play these games with me? Why does she think that she has this right? Is it because she can go get another man today? Is it because she knows she has options?

you are now back to square one. You are now feeling like...(you know what again)

I know, I know, I'm just very very very frustrated at this point and oh so tired. My daughter asked me last night if it was her fault that her mom left. This #hit is getting very, very, very tiresome at this point.