I've been reading your posts. Hang in there. Let her come to you.
Ugh, the Notebook is about choosing between her fiance and her "long lost love". She chooses her long lost love and the movie ends with them dying together in a nursing home. I'm sure this got her emotions going. She's wondering if she really loves you, and she is probably relating to how the character felt when she had to leave the fiance to go to her love. It's all bologney. If you want to get a good movie, get Fireproof, and watch it together.
This is all raw for both of you. How long has it been that she has not contacted the OM?
