I am putting my childrens welfare first and trying to 'drop the rope' as best I can as far as my wife is concerned, but as was told to me I believe by Portland Dad or Puppy Dog Tails, I should take any opportunity to bond with my children and forget the fact I am fuelling her affair.
Nope -- that wasn't me. I would NOT do this for her, as it only enables her, and as someone said above, she will then play this card every single time.
