Thanks again for all your responses, I just don't know what to do at this point as nothing seems to be working.
I disagree -- what you WERE doing was working. Clearly. Can you not see that? Go back and read your own thread.
Then, you blinked.
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I tried the being positive bit, keeping it light, etc and she percieved that as I'm not interested anymore.
And that's exactly what you WANT her to perceive!!! That's what Gucci is trying to teach you. It is only when a WAS perceives that you MAY not be so interested anymore that they will make the move back towards you.
John, I speak frequently about this forum about "The Script." Usually, it's regarding the wayward spouse. Well, there's a "script" for the betrayed spouse, too, and it often includes someone getting very close to paydirt, and then they go all Melty Man. It happens all the time.
I've also never, EVER seen it work. Including in my sitch.
