J,

Thanks for your great support as ever. I know it is early days for me and even though I feel I have made rapid progress in regard to my children, any progress I might make with my wife (and it is a big MIGHT I presume) will take a lot lot longer, even after our divorce. To make matters worse I spoke to one of my close friends earlier and he cannot believe I am still wearing my wedding ring, and also wonders why I cannot understand it's all over based on his experience. This is the last thing I need to hear at this stage.

If you get a chance after lunch you said in your sitch that you took a risk with your H that has payed dividends. I think PositivelyMommy asked the same question. What risk did you take?

Last edited by markhaving probs; 05/05/09 12:22 PM.

Bomb dropped: 19/12/08
Me:48
WAW:41
D:10
S:6
Married: 15 years