She "is" putting a lot of effort into figuring herself out. One thing strikes me in your words, though... What happens when she does? Will she follow her feelings, too? Sounds like she just wants the textbook answer.
Do you still feel connected to her?
All can look right or wrong on paper, and not even be close in reality...
You're doing great!
Me-46, D-21, S15, S13
After many years w/my head in the sand... I FILED Divorced 6/2011
The average woman would rather have beauty than brains, because the average man can see better than he can think.
