Hey Mark

Crisis averted, great result and you were so the man! It is great that she was calm, this is a real change in your sitch. Do you see how she was co-operative too by setting another date. She also challenged you slightly by suggesting a day she knew you would be busy. You did exactly the right thing imo to accept to show that you are flexible. Don't do it everytime but if she asks you in the right way and gives you enough notice then there is no reason not to be reasonable imo.

I think you have achieved some baby steps here and also manned up.

Oh, and don't worry about my thread, there isn't a lot happening anyway \:\) Patience is the key for me at the moment I think. So many people in RL say I am tenacious, lol, I'm not sure if that is a good thing or not \:\) There were lots of people who gave me advice when I was a newbie and boy did I need it! It is rewarding to be able to help you as you are making such great progress in your sitch. I know it may not seem like it but you really are.

Right, I'm off to lunch, I'm Hank Marvin! \:\)


M- May 2006
D - Aug 2010
Now travelling the world