You are so right. I feel sometimes I need advice on how to breathe, but as I have pushed my wife further away with the things I have done or said I feel I need to get things back on an even keel and at least be able to communicate. I am sorry I cannot post on your thread as I do not think I can offer any advice. I do know your situation and I admire your patience of over a year now and your tenacity considering there is OM. I will keep looking at your thread and offer my support where I can.
My wife texted me to call her which I ignored until I could respond. She then rang me and was very calm but always sounds a bit down and cold, and she told me Friday could not be done. She then offered me a seperate date for my son which is on the same night I do circuit training. One of the things I was cited for divorce was being down the gym too often (Tuesdays and Thursdays religiously). When she suggested I pick up my son on Tuesday for a sleepover I immediately said yes, so this is a 180 for me and I get to see my son, so this is a win win situation for me.
Bomb dropped: 19/12/08 Me:48 WAW:41 D:10 S:6 Married: 15 years
