First of all, I think it's great that you've been having a couple of weeks! Take stock of what's been going good, and take some time to recognize the exact things that you've been doing that has helped it to be that way. Don't be shy, brag a little here!!
Now, for the more physical part of things, dig deep for some "more of what works" from the past.
What were things like when the two of you had a better physical connection? What were you doing at the time?
Help, I just want to grab him, but am afraid it will just put him off.
How has that worked for you before? Were your results better when you initiated, or when he did? What was the timing like, where were the places? What was the mood surrounding the moments during the good times? Playful, or serious?
What was some of the foreplay that lead up to foreplay for him? Did he like touches on the shoulder, sexy glances, maybe some certain music, talking about pick-up trucks, etc.?
Especially since you're feeling closer right now, maybe just recreating a tiny spark of what has worked for you in the past might start some forward momentum!
JJ
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