Hi J,

I hope you are well. I am going to send a text now to my wife asking her about the children staying over on Friday night. I will use your wording and I will wait for a response. I was considering another night myself but I also want to show my wife I am having a life too, so I have to balance this all up. j, I do want to see my children as often as possible, but I do not want to seem like a doormat, though if I am offering to have them puts me in control I assume.

I guess by going out on a week day to her would seem like I am shaking things up anyway, though I must get away from thinking about what she is thinking!!


Bomb dropped: 19/12/08
Me:48
WAW:41
D:10
S:6
Married: 15 years