I hope you and your family are well, and thank you for taking the time with my DB efforts. By the way, I have just received my copy of 'No More Mr. Nice Guy'.
This is one of the hardest decisions I have had to make, and yet it should be such a simple decision to make. I had already told my wife I was going out last week, so it isn't as though she did not know. I think she is now taking any opportunity to see the OM as it is all new and lovely in her WAW world. Though I am trying so hard to detach the children make detachment very difficult. I am putting my childrens welfare first and trying to 'drop the rope' as best I can as far as my wife is concerned, but as was told to me I believe by Portland Dad or Puppy Dog Tails, I should take any opportunity to bond with my children and forget the fact I am fuelling her affair. I totally agree with that statement but as you Kev and I agree, I have a life as well AND the fact I want the childrens routine to be as clockwork as possible, within reason of course. I do not want them to feel as if they are being pushed from pillar to post but I did not think my wife would ever use the children to satisfy her own selfish needs.
Bomb dropped: 19/12/08 Me:48 WAW:41 D:10 S:6 Married: 15 years
