I am right there with you. Similiar if not identical problem. I tried to hug him today and he pulled away as if he was grossed out by me, and told me he didnt know how he feels, he isn't happy, and suggested we live apart. We have 3 small children and he is in the middle of a extremely busy career. I think his career is his self image. I'm so desolate. Very, very sad. Don't know how to handle it. I havenot cheated, and have tried to do the right thing, dinner, which he's rarely home for, kids all my responsibility. He told me he's not a great father and he knows hes not a great husband, that if I told him I was madly in love w another person he'd be happy for me. My heart is breaking.
