"I am a little confused with the wild beast reference and mating practices...are you referring to me or the WASs who stray while married? I can assure you that I am not a wild beast." John, The WAS that stray while married - yes I believe this is wild beast behavior, esp. when there are children. I don't know about you, but a lot of LBS's seem to think that 2 wrongs make a right in this regard - in fact I have got advice along these lines even from friends and while my analogy is perhaps a bit extreme I don't quite buy it. Perhaps humans can learn from geese http://animals.howstuffworks.com/birds/geese-mate-for-life.htm/printable