Yes, going dark is the only option and I feel empowered doing it. I have spent months in pain, in distress, in hospital, in financial constraint. a smokescreen for facing themselves.
The truth is that I am showing in actions and words how committed I am to my D and to our lives together, changing my life around to live a life that is good and honest and in accordance with what our marriage and family life meant; with or without him.
He knows, or is at least starting to realise what he has lost....I have thought along the way that I would take him back but now I am not so sure......well, if he ever did come back (which I doubt because he could never admit he is wrong, about anything) then he would have to show me categorically that he is mature and available emotionally enough to take on a mature relationship with me.
I am not sure what you all think, but this OW, this R? What is this? Is it honestly worth all of this? Can she offer him more than what his family, child and wife can?
