Hey FB, I can tell you that I invested everything in my M, sacrificed quite a bit, my hopes and dreams were all related to my W and D8. I am almost embarassed to admit it. Nobody, not my family or friends, not you or the other folks on this board know how much I was invested in this M...financially and emotionally. I don't want this to sound bad, however, my investement went south. Just like my stock portfolio. I had no choice but to cut my losses even after I averaged down on several occasions. My stock will never ever see the highs that it did. That is hard to take. But i can either stay stuck or move. I have decided to move on....and as you know it has taken a while. I have given my stock all the chances in the world to come back too life....one day it may, but I won't own it! I am a little confused with the wild beast reference and mating practices...are you referring to me or the WASs who stray while married? I can assure you that I am not a wild beast.