Got a text from H today. Wants to meet for lunch tmrw. Can only assume it's about his appt with the credit counselor today but I didn't ask. Considered saying I wasn't available but I'd like the phone to stop ringing. So I agreed. Meeting for lunch right after my appt with C. Should be good to prep for lunch with the C beforehand.
Assume it'll just be finance discussions. Plan to keep focus on H - listen to his ideas (but no commitment to plan tmrw/just listen). I always handled the bills so I feel like it's very important to really listen to how H is thinking of handling situation. Plan to talk with the finances and then make light conversation focused on H and how he's doing. I know I'm skinnier than last time he saw me but doubt he'll notice or acknowledge. Most every day someone comments at work my jeans are hanging off me.
So, the goals for tmrw:
be upbeat no R talk don't get emotional work on friendship - period
Goals for the week for GAL:
tennis lessons nurture friendships spend time with Mom more Craigslist items sign up for 10k with my sis
