Wow, he asked you for rent money and his head isn't now flat on one side from a frying pan!!!????? You, my lady, are a saint!!!
I'm glad you are hanging in there, and setting some healthy boundaries with him too. I'm by no means an expert at anything, but it seems to me that those boundaries (letting H see real drawbacks to not being at home) is the best thing you can do right now. If he doesn't have motivation for movement, he won't move........
Keep it up, girl!!!!
Go Glammie, Go Glammie....... ok maybe that's a bit much....
Love ya'!!
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TJ
Me45,H49 D24,S18 M26,T28 Bomb 3/19/08 Sep 6/23/08 EA/PA with Secretary 2007-8 3/2009 H moved in w/OW2 7/2009 Let him go w/Love. 8/2009 Legally Sep'd