Hey braveheart and others, what is your take on this?....

A couple that are friends of mine and my xh are going through a divorce also. The woman is my xh's boss and her h is my xh's best friend and retired captain when they were on the force together. When my xh left me, this couple tried to talk to him about the decisions he was making. My xh's best friend even told my xh that he couldnt believe that he was leaving his family and wife of 20 years for another woman. He said my xh was living a lie and blah, blah, blah.
Well, about a month or two ago, this same man left his family for a younger woman. The woman even worked for his WIFE!
This man told his wife the other day that he had not loved her in a long time. They had been married for around 25 years. He also told her that the man she knew was gone and would never be back, and that he was getting married the day after their divorce is final.
Now you tell me this isnt contagious!
What does he mean by the old him will never return? Do they really know what is happening?


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M:42
H:40
S:18
M:20yrs/together 21yrs
Bomb:9/08 ILYBNILWY
Sep:9/18/08 "ow" :25
Filed:11/18/08
D:12/8/08
M:Different 26 yr. old 7/09.
Newborn 4/10